Emotional affair,how can I tell if its a game,real , or worth waiting for ?

He's committed to his wife and doesn't want to cross that line into a "real" affair. Once he takes that step, he knows there is no going back. Honestly, I think he really likes you and has a connection with you but he truly loves his wife and does not want to leave her. Even if you take it to the next level, I can't see him ever leaving his wife for you. Plus, I imagine if his wife ever finds out, he's going to kick you to the curb to keep her. You need to cut ties with him and focus on your marriage for your child's sake. If you have problems with your husband you can't work out, then you can leave him. But don't involve yourself with another man while you are married.