Should I try to make things work, or end it now?

I like him so much and we have done everything but sex and we were going to but he said I'm too obsessive and emotionally attached to him and that it pisses him off so he told me that we aren't going to talk for three weeks and I asked why and he said "because you need to stop being obsessive before I **** you..so you better not text me for three weeks or we will never talk or hangout again..and I know you don't want that" I feel like that was really disrespectful and mean to say. Idk what to do because I really like him but I feel like he is just using me :( What do you think I should do?