Why do i have the feeling it wont happen?

This girl i really like had a bf the whole school year and they broke up right when summer started. i had become friends with her our junior and senior years and stuff. when they broke up i gave it some time before i talked to her and i dont talk/text to her everyday. she kept saying right before school ended that she wanted to hangout alot over the summer and at college since were going to college in the same city. i was ok yeah. after she broke up i asked texted her some and then told her we need to hang out soon. she replied with a yeah we do! i can sometime this week. so i left it up to her to tell me when by telling her to text me when shes free and wants to. well on facebook (im not a creeper) i saw she was talking to this guy about hanging out too and was like writing to him i cant wait to hang out and all these hearts and stuff. She never does that to me and the week has pretty much gone by and i never heard from her. And this ************ lives a whole state away and i know for a fact shell go hang out with him even though he lives like an hour and a half to two hours away but wont drive 15 minutes to hang out with me. why wont she? i feel like if i keep asking shell get annoyed and either just say leave me alone or go hang out but do it unwillingly nad make it horrible. can someone tell me what to do and why she probably wont?